Don’t Carry the Load Alone!
By: James E. Leary
As a regular reader of Highway News, you know what it’s like to carry a heavy load on the road and in life. Whether it’s the long stretches of highway, time away from loved ones, or the pressures of meeting deadlines, the weight can be overwhelming. In these moments, much like Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane, we face our own crossroads.
In that quiet, dark garden, Jesus knelt under the weight of something far heavier than anything we can imagine. He wasn’t just preparing for the physical pain of the cross; He was carrying the weight of the world’s sin on His shoulders. His heart was full of sorrow, so much so that He told His disciples, “My soul is overwhelmed with sorrow to the point of death” (Matthew 26:38). It was a moment of profound agony. He could have chosen to walk away from that suffering, to avoid the pain, but He stayed. He stayed for us.
There’s a lesson for every trucker, for every person facing something hard and heavy in life. You may not be carrying a cross, but the road ahead might feel just as tough. You might be away from home, tired, and wondering why you have to keep going. Jesus faced that choice in Gethsemane—to go forward into suffering or to turn back. And He chose to go forward. Not because it was easy, but because it had a purpose. He showed us that even in the hardest moments, there’s a reason to keep moving forward.
We all have our Gethsemane moments. Maybe for you, it’s a tough haul across the country, dealing with bad weather, or struggling to keep your eyes open during a long shift. Maybe it’s a family issue back home that’s weighing on you while you’re miles away. In those times, it’s tempting to turn away, to take the easy route. But Jesus showed us a different way. He knelt and prayed, “Not my will, but Yours be done” (Luke 22:42). That’s a hard prayer, especially when the load feels too heavy to bear. But it’s in that surrender that we find strength and purpose.
Look at Job. He lost everything his family, his health, his livelihood. In the ashes of his life, he could have given up. But instead, he chose to trust God, even when he didn’t understand. “Though He slay me, yet will I hope in Him” (Job 13:15), Job said. His faith wasn’t in his circumstances; it was in his Creator. And in the end, Job didn’t just get his old life back – he gained something deeper, a closer relationship with God.
As a trucker, you know about the long haul. Sometimes, the toughest stretches of the road are the ones that teach us the most. It’s the same with life. Our Gethsemane moments the times when we feel like we can’t go on—are not the end. They’re the beginning of something greater. “In all things God works for the good of those who love Him” (Romans 8:28). Even when we don’t see it, God is working in our lives, shaping us, helping us grow stronger, and drawing us closer to Him.
The road isn’t always easy. There will be dark nights and lonely miles. But Jesus showed us the way. He showed us that when we choose to trust God’s plan, even in the darkest moments, we’ll find the light waiting for us on the other side. So, the next time you’re out on the road, feeling the weight of the load you’re carrying, remember Gethsemane. Remember that the hardest roads often lead to the most beautiful destinations. Keep going, keep trusting, and know that God has a purpose for you, even in the hardest moments.